"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Social Proof

DarthJuan

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Just another example of how social status can sometimes trump looks.

Without getting too much into it...
a friend got a chance to go to vegas with a camera crew following him around filming him.
So it looked like he was some sort of "somebody".
He is very overweight, not unkempt or anything...but he's no Brad Pitt.

He said it was just incredible. Chicks were just SWAMPING him. Chicks would walk right up to him and hand him their numbers (hotel room numbers too) and all sorts of crazy shyt. And yeah, he f-closed easily.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PUA in Training

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DarthJuan said:
Just another example of how social status can sometimes trump looks.

Without getting too much into it...
a friend got a chance to go to vegas with a camera crew following him around filming him.
So it looked like he was some sort of "somebody".
He is very overweight, not unkempt or anything...but he's no Brad Pitt.

He said it was just incredible. Chicks were just SWAMPING him. Chicks would walk right up to him and hand him their numbers (hotel room numbers too) and all sorts of crazy shyt. And yeah, he f-closed easily.
Did he f-close with them not knowing that he wasn't really some kind of V.I.P. or something? Or did it just never come up and they just assumed the whole time that he was, or what?
 

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It's a proven theory, its all around us on a small scale


-Cod3r
 

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Social proof shouldn't be thought about. It just comes when you are living the good life. If you're trying to show social proof just for a girl, then it's all just smoke and mirrors.
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ Wats wrong with getting laid off of 'smoke and mirrors' ?? :)


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jack McCrack

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Inhaling smoke is bad for the lungs and the mirrors will break if she's ugly.
 

DarthJuan

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PUA in Training said:
Did he f-close with them not knowing that he wasn't really some kind of V.I.P. or something? Or did it just never come up and they just assumed the whole time that he was, or what?

From what I understand, they didn't really care. He was someone who was commanding alot of attention. And he was getting access to some hard to get into events.

One of the chicks he ended up with ditched her husband (or he might have been a boyfriend/sugardaddy or something) to be with him.
 
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