"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Social Proof

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Just another example of how social status can sometimes trump looks.

Without getting too much into it...
a friend got a chance to go to vegas with a camera crew following him around filming him.
So it looked like he was some sort of "somebody".
He is very overweight, not unkempt or anything...but he's no Brad Pitt.

He said it was just incredible. Chicks were just SWAMPING him. Chicks would walk right up to him and hand him their numbers (hotel room numbers too) and all sorts of crazy shyt. And yeah, he f-closed easily.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DarthJuan said:
Just another example of how social status can sometimes trump looks.

Without getting too much into it...
a friend got a chance to go to vegas with a camera crew following him around filming him.
So it looked like he was some sort of "somebody".
He is very overweight, not unkempt or anything...but he's no Brad Pitt.

He said it was just incredible. Chicks were just SWAMPING him. Chicks would walk right up to him and hand him their numbers (hotel room numbers too) and all sorts of crazy shyt. And yeah, he f-closed easily.
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Did he f-close with them not knowing that he wasn't really some kind of V.I.P. or something? Or did it just never come up and they just assumed the whole time that he was, or what?
 
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It's a proven theory, its all around us on a small scale


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Social proof shouldn't be thought about. It just comes when you are living the good life. If you're trying to show social proof just for a girl, then it's all just smoke and mirrors.
 
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^ ^ Wats wrong with getting laid off of 'smoke and mirrors' ?? :)


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Inhaling smoke is bad for the lungs and the mirrors will break if she's ugly.
 
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PUA in Training said:
Did he f-close with them not knowing that he wasn't really some kind of V.I.P. or something? Or did it just never come up and they just assumed the whole time that he was, or what?
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From what I understand, they didn't really care. He was someone who was commanding alot of attention. And he was getting access to some hard to get into events.

One of the chicks he ended up with ditched her husband (or he might have been a boyfriend/sugardaddy or something) to be with him.
 
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