Social Proof and the Mature Man

[mcqueen207]

Ok here is the deal, I'm 38 and haved moved to a new city where I don't know anyone. I am a successful professional that works in an environment that doesn't put me in the path of date-able women...or single guys to hang out with.
How can I increase my social proof when I am (for now) an outsider? What is a good way to meet fellow single guys to hang out with? My age bracket seems to be filled with married people.

BTW I am not a "sporty" guy. I am in pretty good shape and would rate myself a 6 or 7. I am also 5'4. I make good money, drive a nice car, and dress well. :woo:

 

[flexion_]

Join some recreational sports league.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I've met some cool dudes at the gym, but if ur not into that, i dunno.. go into some local chat rooms or join toastmasters or something.:cheer:

 

[Chrispy]

Our city has sports leagues - recreational. The league attracts people who are already working and are mostly single. You should look into joining them if your city has them. The only thing that your job should bring out is NOT that it is boring (when you talk to women about it).

Don't limit yourself to sports - some of those girls are just big (bulky but not fat). And always look for something new to do. You know when you have that voice that says "no way i'm not doing that." Be adventurous and do it. You'll have a lot of fun and you'll shine!

 

[ThinWhiteDuke]

myspace.com

 

[cinephile]

Dance classes are good too. There are usually more women than men.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by mcqueen207
Ok here is the deal, I'm 38 and haved moved to a new city where I don't know anyone. I am a successful professional that works in an environment that doesn't put me in the path of date-able women...or single guys to hang out with.
How can I increase my social proof when I am (for now) an outsider? What is a good way to meet fellow single guys to hang out with? My age bracket seems to be filled with married people.

BTW I am not a "sporty" guy. I am in pretty good shape and would rate myself a 6 or 7. I am also 5'4. I make good money, drive a nice car, and dress well. :woo:

Go to Coquitlam Centre and pick up some ladies there if you're comfortable. Women love to shop... I love to pick-up women... and that mall is a gold mine..