"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Social Proof and the Mature Man

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mcqueen207

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Ok here is the deal, I'm 38 and haved moved to a new city where I don't know anyone. I am a successful professional that works in an environment that doesn't put me in the path of date-able women...or single guys to hang out with.
How can I increase my social proof when I am (for now) an outsider? What is a good way to meet fellow single guys to hang out with? My age bracket seems to be filled with married people.

BTW I am not a "sporty" guy. I am in pretty good shape and would rate myself a 6 or 7. I am also 5'4. I make good money, drive a nice car, and dress well. :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ER!C L!VE

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I've met some cool dudes at the gym, but if ur not into that, i dunno.. go into some local chat rooms or join toastmasters or something.:cheer:
 
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Our city has sports leagues - recreational. The league attracts people who are already working and are mostly single. You should look into joining them if your city has them. The only thing that your job should bring out is NOT that it is boring (when you talk to women about it).

Don't limit yourself to sports - some of those girls are just big (bulky but not fat). And always look for something new to do. You know when you have that voice that says "no way i'm not doing that." Be adventurous and do it. You'll have a lot of fun and you'll shine!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dance classes are good too. There are usually more women than men.
 
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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by mcqueen207
Ok here is the deal, I'm 38 and haved moved to a new city where I don't know anyone. I am a successful professional that works in an environment that doesn't put me in the path of date-able women...or single guys to hang out with.
How can I increase my social proof when I am (for now) an outsider? What is a good way to meet fellow single guys to hang out with? My age bracket seems to be filled with married people.

BTW I am not a "sporty" guy. I am in pretty good shape and would rate myself a 6 or 7. I am also 5'4. I make good money, drive a nice car, and dress well. :woo:
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Go to Coquitlam Centre and pick up some ladies there if you're comfortable. Women love to shop... I love to pick-up women... and that mall is a gold mine..
 
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