"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jiza101

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Im kind of in the "cool" group at school, but i find i never get called or call ppl cause i dun have ppls numbers and ****. Im good mates with like 5 of them but i just find no one calls me on weekend and i dont call ppl i dont have anyones number. ?
My school formal is coming up aswell and i got nfi who to take :/
The chick i like was banging my mate lol :-0
so yer just some help please i feal a bit lonely and lost :(:(
I also cant tell what i look like asing good looking or not. My major flaw is long earlobes !
Im working out atm too but it will take a while. Im goin to schoolies with all my mates in november which should be good :>
So yer just some advice please guys i need something to pick me up and gimme some good advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well first things first, if they are your friends, get their phone numbers and you canring them. Duh
 

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Originally posted by jiza101
My major flaw is long earlobes !
why, do you keep tripping over them?

do what jsh said right now and phone THEM at the weekend.

Don't wait for others to phone you. You'd have to be important to them for that to happen.
 

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fair enough :p
I need to get this girl i liked out of my head, every math class we talk and i just think bout banging her :eek:
Meanwhile my mate is banging her, nearly everyone asked her out, she was knew to the school.
I think im gona read "getting over oneitits" or sumthing like that
Thanks for the tips, what bout who to take to the formal ?
 

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Long earlobes. You are a mutated freak man. Not even God can get you a woman.
















Naw, I'm jsut playin. Stop being worried about such a little thing!! Formal...take the girl you likes you as opposed to the one that "settled for you". You won't be as nervous and will enjoy it more....not that I have any experience lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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