"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Colossus

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Others have articulated it pretty well so I wont go off, but you made a huge tactical error here, Fingerling.

All I had to read was "bought a house with her". I guess the silver lining is that she only gets 20%. I dont know where you live or how the legalities work but I wish you the best of luck. Under NO circumstances should you marry her. Kailex is right---she isnt going to change. Look at her family. They contributed sh!t to your home, and she is flat out lazy. So in answer to your original question dating under-class is never advisable.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sodbuster

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SH!T, they've said it all. I agree with them all GTFO of this mess NOW. SHe's going to look like her mother "because thats the way it is" live like her mother, raise your kids like her mother, etc.etc. etc.

Why do you think the kings of old married royal blood-and just screwed the others. YOu can't take a girl who likes dirt floors and put her in a castle-she doesn't understand what it cost you.
 
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