"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Colossus

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Others have articulated it pretty well so I wont go off, but you made a huge tactical error here, Fingerling.

All I had to read was "bought a house with her". I guess the silver lining is that she only gets 20%. I dont know where you live or how the legalities work but I wish you the best of luck. Under NO circumstances should you marry her. Kailex is right---she isnt going to change. Look at her family. They contributed sh!t to your home, and she is flat out lazy. So in answer to your original question dating under-class is never advisable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sodbuster

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SH!T, they've said it all. I agree with them all GTFO of this mess NOW. SHe's going to look like her mother "because thats the way it is" live like her mother, raise your kids like her mother, etc.etc. etc.

Why do you think the kings of old married royal blood-and just screwed the others. YOu can't take a girl who likes dirt floors and put her in a castle-she doesn't understand what it cost you.
 
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