"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Colossus

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Others have articulated it pretty well so I wont go off, but you made a huge tactical error here, Fingerling.

All I had to read was "bought a house with her". I guess the silver lining is that she only gets 20%. I dont know where you live or how the legalities work but I wish you the best of luck. Under NO circumstances should you marry her. Kailex is right---she isnt going to change. Look at her family. They contributed sh!t to your home, and she is flat out lazy. So in answer to your original question dating under-class is never advisable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sodbuster

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SH!T, they've said it all. I agree with them all GTFO of this mess NOW. SHe's going to look like her mother "because thats the way it is" live like her mother, raise your kids like her mother, etc.etc. etc.

Why do you think the kings of old married royal blood-and just screwed the others. YOu can't take a girl who likes dirt floors and put her in a castle-she doesn't understand what it cost you.
 
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