"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no_longer_afc

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Hi all,

I feel that the importance of a solid group of friends cannot be overlooked.

Now I hate to be judgemental but I feel that we all are in some way or another. People can identify a geeky group from the 'in' crowd relatively easily. Being with a group of friends who have had experience of picking up girls is essential. It increases your social worth and shows that you can be popular and you can imitate and learn from the smooth operators in the group.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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T-Roy

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Amen to that!
 

SinJester

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**** that ****. Trying to be 'cool' and 'popular' is for people that ARENT
 

MooseGod

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no ****. If you're a dungeons and dragons kinda guy, chances are you'll be happier with a dungeons and dragons type chick too. Like attracts like, and trying to be somebody you're not is going to make you miserable in the long run.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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