"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no_longer_afc

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Hi all,

I feel that the importance of a solid group of friends cannot be overlooked.

Now I hate to be judgemental but I feel that we all are in some way or another. People can identify a geeky group from the 'in' crowd relatively easily. Being with a group of friends who have had experience of picking up girls is essential. It increases your social worth and shows that you can be popular and you can imitate and learn from the smooth operators in the group.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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T-Roy

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Amen to that!
 

SinJester

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**** that ****. Trying to be 'cool' and 'popular' is for people that ARENT
 

MooseGod

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no ****. If you're a dungeons and dragons kinda guy, chances are you'll be happier with a dungeons and dragons type chick too. Like attracts like, and trying to be somebody you're not is going to make you miserable in the long run.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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