"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Epicurus

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I have my own little game plan but I always like to listen and learn from others.
Basically girl that’s a part of my social circle as of very recently has showed positive behavior towards me. Went dancing with her very smiley and receptive. Have her number will not text. I will see her either this week or next week. How do YOU personally go about doing things
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know you said you won't text but chances are she expects you to do exactly that if you like her.

If you'd like to spend time with her again try this:

"Headed to xyz to salsa Wednesday. Come dance." Then if she responds positive, negative, neutral all you say is "Ok cool." Nothing more.

That shows interest but isn't really a date. It's a hey I'm doing this...you're invited to join me.

This keeps it low key in social circle, presents you as cool and chill but with stuff going on.
 
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BeExcellent said:
I know you said you won't text but chances are she expects you to do exactly that if you like her.

If you'd like to spend time with her again try this:

"Headed to xyz to salsa Wednesday. Come dance." Then if she responds positive, negative, neutral all you say is "Ok cool." Nothing more.

That shows interest but isn't really a date. It's a hey I'm doing this...you're invited to join me.

This keeps it low key in social circle, presents you as cool and chill but with stuff going on.
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I see where you’re coming from and wouldn’t say it is a bad idea but I’m seeing her next Friday we’re doing a game night so I think I might just wait until I see her again before texting
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Epicurus said:
I see where you’re coming from and wouldn’t say it is a bad idea but I’m seeing her next Friday we’re doing a game night so I think I might just wait until I see her again before texting
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Add her on snapchat fool. It sends a clear msg lowkey, and opens an easy more fun no pressure line of communication. Dont msg her. Just add her.
 
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