"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have my own little game plan but I always like to listen and learn from others.
Basically girl that’s a part of my social circle as of very recently has showed positive behavior towards me. Went dancing with her very smiley and receptive. Have her number will not text. I will see her either this week or next week. How do YOU personally go about doing things
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know you said you won't text but chances are she expects you to do exactly that if you like her.

If you'd like to spend time with her again try this:

"Headed to xyz to salsa Wednesday. Come dance." Then if she responds positive, negative, neutral all you say is "Ok cool." Nothing more.

That shows interest but isn't really a date. It's a hey I'm doing this...you're invited to join me.

This keeps it low key in social circle, presents you as cool and chill but with stuff going on.
 
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BeExcellent said:
I know you said you won't text but chances are she expects you to do exactly that if you like her.

If you'd like to spend time with her again try this:

"Headed to xyz to salsa Wednesday. Come dance." Then if she responds positive, negative, neutral all you say is "Ok cool." Nothing more.

That shows interest but isn't really a date. It's a hey I'm doing this...you're invited to join me.

This keeps it low key in social circle, presents you as cool and chill but with stuff going on.
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I see where you’re coming from and wouldn’t say it is a bad idea but I’m seeing her next Friday we’re doing a game night so I think I might just wait until I see her again before texting
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Epicurus said:
I see where you’re coming from and wouldn’t say it is a bad idea but I’m seeing her next Friday we’re doing a game night so I think I might just wait until I see her again before texting
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Add her on snapchat fool. It sends a clear msg lowkey, and opens an easy more fun no pressure line of communication. Dont msg her. Just add her.
 
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