"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sober Assassin?

DrPhysique

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I started drinking and going to parties recently and I could've hooked up with a bunch of girls (but decided to just **** around with them because most of them were sluts.) Thing is, if I did hook up with them, I figured it would be fine because I'd be drunk. What if I decide not to drink anymore? Wouldn't a lot of people think of it as a bad thing?

To me, there's just so many downsides to drinking and I would probably prefer not to drink (alcohol) and just go to parties, clubs or bars. Apparently a lot of people in the community don't drink, can you guys explain me why and how they do it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SgtSplacker

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If i'm trying to pick up I stay sober. I drink light beer because it doesnt taste too bad warm. Switch it up for water every so often, rinse repeat. No smoking buds either THAT just wrecks my game totally. I find I have more fun when I go out like this. If i'm drinking I just don't worry about gaming girls unless it's just on a platter for me... otherwise it's predator tiem!
 

DrPhysique

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Kerpal said:
Just drink. Missing out on the alcohol-fueled social interaction is worse for you than the alcohol itself.
Yes, but I'm in university and I live quite far from university and all of the parties. It's hard to find a DD that would drive me home. Also, drinking costs a decent amount of money.
 
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