"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sober Assassin?

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DrPhysique

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I started drinking and going to parties recently and I could've hooked up with a bunch of girls (but decided to just **** around with them because most of them were sluts.) Thing is, if I did hook up with them, I figured it would be fine because I'd be drunk. What if I decide not to drink anymore? Wouldn't a lot of people think of it as a bad thing?

To me, there's just so many downsides to drinking and I would probably prefer not to drink (alcohol) and just go to parties, clubs or bars. Apparently a lot of people in the community don't drink, can you guys explain me why and how they do it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If i'm trying to pick up I stay sober. I drink light beer because it doesnt taste too bad warm. Switch it up for water every so often, rinse repeat. No smoking buds either THAT just wrecks my game totally. I find I have more fun when I go out like this. If i'm drinking I just don't worry about gaming girls unless it's just on a platter for me... otherwise it's predator tiem!
 
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Kerpal said:
Just drink. Missing out on the alcohol-fueled social interaction is worse for you than the alcohol itself.
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Yes, but I'm in university and I live quite far from university and all of the parties. It's hard to find a DD that would drive me home. Also, drinking costs a decent amount of money.
 
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