"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sober Assassin?

DrPhysique

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I started drinking and going to parties recently and I could've hooked up with a bunch of girls (but decided to just **** around with them because most of them were sluts.) Thing is, if I did hook up with them, I figured it would be fine because I'd be drunk. What if I decide not to drink anymore? Wouldn't a lot of people think of it as a bad thing?

To me, there's just so many downsides to drinking and I would probably prefer not to drink (alcohol) and just go to parties, clubs or bars. Apparently a lot of people in the community don't drink, can you guys explain me why and how they do it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SgtSplacker

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If i'm trying to pick up I stay sober. I drink light beer because it doesnt taste too bad warm. Switch it up for water every so often, rinse repeat. No smoking buds either THAT just wrecks my game totally. I find I have more fun when I go out like this. If i'm drinking I just don't worry about gaming girls unless it's just on a platter for me... otherwise it's predator tiem!
 

DrPhysique

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Kerpal said:
Just drink. Missing out on the alcohol-fueled social interaction is worse for you than the alcohol itself.
Yes, but I'm in university and I live quite far from university and all of the parties. It's hard to find a DD that would drive me home. Also, drinking costs a decent amount of money.
 
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