"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
so...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Great One
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Quiksilver
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another is giving me IOIs but isn't my type. The last is the most awkward...She's my close friend's sister, and has been givin mad IOIs. She's pretty hot, but...she's my friends freakin sister! I've been playin that one cool, leaving the door open essentially...Not bad for the first week, not bad at all!
But this year, im just being my natural ****y, confident self and im getting a lot of IOI's from a lot of girls, and suprisingly, a better rep with the "popular" guys because of it. (Note: I use parenthesis cause i dont really care about that, cause who wants to be popular with guys anyway.):rockon:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When it comes to talking in class, getting called out by the teacher, and cold approaching I just bite it....i'm trying to push myself so hard but my anxiety just holds me back, and it sucks...because I know I have so much more potential then the rest of the guys in the school, I just wish I could get rid of my insecurities instantly by taking a pill, but after 2 years of trying to fight this I realize it's going to take more then being on medication, and more time then I expected.
AlexTheGreat
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wish me a good luck,because i will need it
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
what can i talk about? i know this gril.. i talk to her everyday on morning but rest of the schoooltime im just like a stone.. i dont know what to say, cuz i have talked to her b4 about "how shes doing etc" but when we have freetime or sitting in caffee im just a stone.. my mouth doesnt open.. i realy dont know what to talk about then.. same with, when im with group of people.. :8 its sucks
And i have this.. I want to say it but my mouth dont want to open, i think im afraid to well say something wrong etc..
can somone givme a advice?.. and thhis isnt ADULT-talk but more Slang/youth boys talk.. not so REAL.. feels like kinda akward when you are starting a adult-subject orsomething:... anwyay do somone have advice?..
if u cant think of anythin to say then ur thinking too much. stop thinkin wit ur mind and jus think on instinct, let it flow...u mite not think u can do this but everyone can, some jus never tried