"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"So you're (girl's name here) boyfriend, eh?"

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This hasn't happened to me yet, but I think it would be a good idea to know the ideal answer if and when it does. Suppose you're out with a girl who hasn't asked to be exclusive yet, and you haven't heard her refer to you as her boyfriend yet. You meet up with one of her friends. Your girl introduces you by your name. Her friend says, "So you're (girl's name here) boyfriend, eh?"

Essentially, I want to hear suggestions for what the best "neutral" answer to this question is, i.e. one that doesn't say yes or no. So far, the best idea I have is "Actually, I'm her fiancee. We're getting married on the first day of spring :D". I like this answer, but if this scenario happens multiple times with the same girl, it would be nice to not say the same damn thing over and over again, you know?

Anyway, let's hear some suggestions!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Actually, I'm her fiancee. We're getting married on the first day of spring :D".

lol i like that one

off the top of my head..
"whos 'womensname' ?" said with over the top seriousness
"what do you mean boyfriend? were married"
"trying to find out if im single eh..very sutle"
 
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d2j said:
"Actually, I'm her fiancee. We're getting married on the first day of spring :D".

lol i like that one

off the top of my head..
"whos 'womensname' ?" said with over the top seriousness
"what do you mean boyfriend? were married"
"trying to find out if im single eh..very sutle"
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Hahahahaha...i like the first one off the top of your head.
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
Hahahahaha...i like the first one off the top of your head.
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like? ..damm i love that one :up:
 
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hola amigo,
if you are of mature age (above 16) then u never ask a girl to go steady......if you have the symptoms of gf/bf like dates every weekend, talk on the phone a bunch etc, then you MUST assume yall are together and the best way the end the confusion is to introduce her as your gf one day.....but u must have given it enough time to be true, not 2 weeks of dates but maybe a month of talking = gf.

Mr. Larry

unless predeterminded that yall are not looking for a relationship then i would say:

"No, I work for an escort service."
that'll make a smile or two
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice lines, d2j. Also, nice post Captain Popular; you raise a good point.

Let's keep the suggestions coming :D.
 
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"Absolutely but [look at watch] only until 2:00. Would you like a reservation?"
 
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