"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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so you know how dating a co worker is a no go ? lol

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So i do a side gig cuz i love it. I would rather be out gaming hot hot sexy girls but my side gig gives me more than gaming does.

So there might be a chick who is a tough nut to crack. Like mysterious but super cute. Kinda like my type of hard nose no nonsense...so i gather. Cuz i dont know her yet.

But she pops the personal bubble we all have nonchalantly. And i respectfully seemingly dismiss it eventhough im fighting my boner.

Lol....

These chicks man just cant write me a note or something.


I know shes like gauging me or whatever. But it is work and i know that its one way to meet ur man...so idk. Anyone can message me and guide me. Cuz i hate fighting with Thor. Thor is what i call my penis. Thor (sore is how i leave them)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well to give you a worst case scenario the bpd chick that I got involved with was a colleague. (I did not know she was bpd) and the damage it did to my reputation meant I had to leave my job which i enjoyed and was progressing well at, and go to work for another company.

When I first got involved with her my attitude was what's the worst that could happen, and from working with her I didn't forsee any problems.

Basically if you mess with a chick where you work and it goes wrong, it's bringing a major area of your life into the whole dynamic. In my case it made work literally hell and has probably set me back a couple of years in my career.

And in my case they didn't even BELIEVE the bull**** Accusations she made, and ended up managing her out based on her crazy behavior towards me when she split me black.

To my face the bosses were on my side and even told me privately that everyone has fallen for a crazy woman at some stage, but behind my back I was now seen as a liability

I went from being seen as potentially the future of the company to a good worker who needed to have an eye kept on me.

Long story short, don't do it, there's other ways to meet chick's and it's not worth your job.
 
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