"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so you know how dating a co worker is a no go ? lol

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So i do a side gig cuz i love it. I would rather be out gaming hot hot sexy girls but my side gig gives me more than gaming does.

So there might be a chick who is a tough nut to crack. Like mysterious but super cute. Kinda like my type of hard nose no nonsense...so i gather. Cuz i dont know her yet.

But she pops the personal bubble we all have nonchalantly. And i respectfully seemingly dismiss it eventhough im fighting my boner.

Lol....

These chicks man just cant write me a note or something.


I know shes like gauging me or whatever. But it is work and i know that its one way to meet ur man...so idk. Anyone can message me and guide me. Cuz i hate fighting with Thor. Thor is what i call my penis. Thor (sore is how i leave them)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well to give you a worst case scenario the bpd chick that I got involved with was a colleague. (I did not know she was bpd) and the damage it did to my reputation meant I had to leave my job which i enjoyed and was progressing well at, and go to work for another company.

When I first got involved with her my attitude was what's the worst that could happen, and from working with her I didn't forsee any problems.

Basically if you mess with a chick where you work and it goes wrong, it's bringing a major area of your life into the whole dynamic. In my case it made work literally hell and has probably set me back a couple of years in my career.

And in my case they didn't even BELIEVE the bull**** Accusations she made, and ended up managing her out based on her crazy behavior towards me when she split me black.

To my face the bosses were on my side and even told me privately that everyone has fallen for a crazy woman at some stage, but behind my back I was now seen as a liability

I went from being seen as potentially the future of the company to a good worker who needed to have an eye kept on me.

Long story short, don't do it, there's other ways to meet chick's and it's not worth your job.
 
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