"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So Who's getting ready to go to the bar tonight ?

Wiesman44

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So who's getting ready to go to the bar / club tonight ? I cant wait to go, although its raining up here. According to my mother, she doesn't think that many girls will be out. They dont want to ruin their hair apparently.

Been out to the bar Tuesday, Thursday, and now today. Unfortunately, i only have a few more weeks until i start my first full-time job outta college so the bar trips will be cut down a LOT.


So who's going sargin' tonight boys ?! I want these numbers to be fvcking large !

ONly way to get better is to go in the field.

As Shezz says, Sarge on !
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wiesman44

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just wanna see who's going to the bar a$$hole. Is that completely out of line ? ...no, its not.
 

belividere

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damn man relax. This is a discussion forum still isn't?

Weisman, I'll but it'll be with a girl I've been seeing for awhile so no sarging. . .well at least until she hits the bathroom. Good luck tonight man
 

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hey weisman....where do you live??? i'm in nyc and it was comin down hard but it just stopped right now....just go out and sarge
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gongxia649

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im going to the club tonight. im in iselin,new jersey.

lets see if i can close some numbers
 

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Yep , I'm outta my home town and out on theprowl in the Capital , representin the pimpin all across the nation, from the nation capitol , to the state capitol to the pineapple to the big apple ...
 

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went there asked a few hb to dance (wanna dance). they rejected me.
why do they come to the club if they dont wanna dance. i know thats the wrong way to ask, but i'm not a good dancer.
 

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Just got back from teh club w/ 4 of my buds. GOt 1 number, and approached 5 sets. I've got some q's for you all when I'm sober. But i'm somewhat pissed b/c i know i coulda banged this 28 yr old hb 8 w/ 3 kids if I only had my own apartment ! ahhhhh. Oh well, i didnt go there to get a ons. I went there to work on my gaming.

I need some help on the roles of the wing, and i need some help from you all in moving through different stages.

Bars are much different than parites in that you need to have so much more game b/c of the competition. I always that I was a Don Juan at college. Unfortunately, now that I look back on it i was in frat and scoring girls was pretty easy if u were good looking, muscular, and were somewhat funny (which i am to a degree).

I'm in a whole new world. Hopefully w/ the help of mystery's book and u guys, we can get my sorry a$$ some A$$, lol.

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Wiesman44 said:
I always that I was a Don Juan at college. Unfortunately, now that I look back on it i was in frat and scoring girls was pretty easy if u were good looking, muscular, and were somewhat funny (which i am to a degree).

I'm in a whole new world. Hopefully w/ the help of mystery's book and u guys, we can get my sorry a$$ some A$$, lol.

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Agreed. This site is great for a guy in your spot where you've been through enough to know how to deal with girls and are entering the real world. I still after two years here have no idea why a college guy needs this site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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