"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So Who's getting ready to go to the bar tonight ?

Wiesman44

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So who's getting ready to go to the bar / club tonight ? I cant wait to go, although its raining up here. According to my mother, she doesn't think that many girls will be out. They dont want to ruin their hair apparently.

Been out to the bar Tuesday, Thursday, and now today. Unfortunately, i only have a few more weeks until i start my first full-time job outta college so the bar trips will be cut down a LOT.


So who's going sargin' tonight boys ?! I want these numbers to be fvcking large !

ONly way to get better is to go in the field.

As Shezz says, Sarge on !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wiesman44

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just wanna see who's going to the bar a$$hole. Is that completely out of line ? ...no, its not.
 

belividere

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damn man relax. This is a discussion forum still isn't?

Weisman, I'll but it'll be with a girl I've been seeing for awhile so no sarging. . .well at least until she hits the bathroom. Good luck tonight man
 

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hey weisman....where do you live??? i'm in nyc and it was comin down hard but it just stopped right now....just go out and sarge
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gongxia649

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im going to the club tonight. im in iselin,new jersey.

lets see if i can close some numbers
 

Natch

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Yep , I'm outta my home town and out on theprowl in the Capital , representin the pimpin all across the nation, from the nation capitol , to the state capitol to the pineapple to the big apple ...
 

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went there asked a few hb to dance (wanna dance). they rejected me.
why do they come to the club if they dont wanna dance. i know thats the wrong way to ask, but i'm not a good dancer.
 

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Just got back from teh club w/ 4 of my buds. GOt 1 number, and approached 5 sets. I've got some q's for you all when I'm sober. But i'm somewhat pissed b/c i know i coulda banged this 28 yr old hb 8 w/ 3 kids if I only had my own apartment ! ahhhhh. Oh well, i didnt go there to get a ons. I went there to work on my gaming.

I need some help on the roles of the wing, and i need some help from you all in moving through different stages.

Bars are much different than parites in that you need to have so much more game b/c of the competition. I always that I was a Don Juan at college. Unfortunately, now that I look back on it i was in frat and scoring girls was pretty easy if u were good looking, muscular, and were somewhat funny (which i am to a degree).

I'm in a whole new world. Hopefully w/ the help of mystery's book and u guys, we can get my sorry a$$ some A$$, lol.

This
 

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Wiesman44 said:
I always that I was a Don Juan at college. Unfortunately, now that I look back on it i was in frat and scoring girls was pretty easy if u were good looking, muscular, and were somewhat funny (which i am to a degree).

I'm in a whole new world. Hopefully w/ the help of mystery's book and u guys, we can get my sorry a$$ some A$$, lol.

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Agreed. This site is great for a guy in your spot where you've been through enough to know how to deal with girls and are entering the real world. I still after two years here have no idea why a college guy needs this site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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