"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So Who's getting ready to go to the bar tonight ?

Wiesman44

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So who's getting ready to go to the bar / club tonight ? I cant wait to go, although its raining up here. According to my mother, she doesn't think that many girls will be out. They dont want to ruin their hair apparently.

Been out to the bar Tuesday, Thursday, and now today. Unfortunately, i only have a few more weeks until i start my first full-time job outta college so the bar trips will be cut down a LOT.


So who's going sargin' tonight boys ?! I want these numbers to be fvcking large !

ONly way to get better is to go in the field.

As Shezz says, Sarge on !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wiesman44

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just wanna see who's going to the bar a$$hole. Is that completely out of line ? ...no, its not.
 

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damn man relax. This is a discussion forum still isn't?

Weisman, I'll but it'll be with a girl I've been seeing for awhile so no sarging. . .well at least until she hits the bathroom. Good luck tonight man
 

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hey weisman....where do you live??? i'm in nyc and it was comin down hard but it just stopped right now....just go out and sarge
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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im going to the club tonight. im in iselin,new jersey.

lets see if i can close some numbers
 

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Yep , I'm outta my home town and out on theprowl in the Capital , representin the pimpin all across the nation, from the nation capitol , to the state capitol to the pineapple to the big apple ...
 

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went there asked a few hb to dance (wanna dance). they rejected me.
why do they come to the club if they dont wanna dance. i know thats the wrong way to ask, but i'm not a good dancer.
 

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Just got back from teh club w/ 4 of my buds. GOt 1 number, and approached 5 sets. I've got some q's for you all when I'm sober. But i'm somewhat pissed b/c i know i coulda banged this 28 yr old hb 8 w/ 3 kids if I only had my own apartment ! ahhhhh. Oh well, i didnt go there to get a ons. I went there to work on my gaming.

I need some help on the roles of the wing, and i need some help from you all in moving through different stages.

Bars are much different than parites in that you need to have so much more game b/c of the competition. I always that I was a Don Juan at college. Unfortunately, now that I look back on it i was in frat and scoring girls was pretty easy if u were good looking, muscular, and were somewhat funny (which i am to a degree).

I'm in a whole new world. Hopefully w/ the help of mystery's book and u guys, we can get my sorry a$$ some A$$, lol.

This
 

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Wiesman44 said:
I always that I was a Don Juan at college. Unfortunately, now that I look back on it i was in frat and scoring girls was pretty easy if u were good looking, muscular, and were somewhat funny (which i am to a degree).

I'm in a whole new world. Hopefully w/ the help of mystery's book and u guys, we can get my sorry a$$ some A$$, lol.

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Agreed. This site is great for a guy in your spot where you've been through enough to know how to deal with girls and are entering the real world. I still after two years here have no idea why a college guy needs this site.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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