"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So who else received that email about making statements instead of asking?

Kev07

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Does this still apply to asking girls out to dances?


It's kind of weird just saying "hey! go to prom/homecoming/watever with me!"


but then again, last year, to my date, i "asked" her by saying this

"come with me!"
"where?"
"duh to jr prom =]"
"i'll think about it" and a day or 2 later says yes.

mmm thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skilla_Staz

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Yes.

Tell her she should go keeps the ball in your court. ASKING her to go with you says "Here, take the ball, if you want to keep it, keep it, if you want to give it back, give it back. You have control"
 

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if she's interested, saying "you wanna go to prom" is gonna be a yes. if she only says yes because you played your dj mind games on her, then she'll probably be a really shiity date.
 
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