"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So Where Do Y'all Meet 'Em?

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Aight, well school, for reasons I won't get into in this thread, ain't a great place for me to date girls anymore. I've tried a youth group, but it didn't have many options. Gone through friends and all that, limited success. Tried the internet, it's an ongoing process. So what else is there? How do y'all meet most of the girls that you Don and Juan into fully enjoying your company? It's a bit harder in high school....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How bout stop focusing on meeting girls, and studying?

Get in a good college/uni and meet the 20K girls there.
 

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Erm.... because that's the worst idea I've ever heard?
 

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Originally posted by Ballistik
Erm.... because that's the worst idea I've ever heard?
Haha okay, here's my second suggestion then.
 

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Nothing comes up with that link.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its the search facility on this discussion forum, he is actually trying to help.
 

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Not focusing on girls and actually focusing on yourself to get into a good school is the worst idea you've ever heard?

AFC.
Read the Bible.
 

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You deem me an AFC because I reject the idea of not dating anyone for the next year and a half?

Right....
 

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
How bout stop focusing on meeting girls, and studying?

Get in a good college/uni and meet the 20K girls there.
DO you know him? He could be going to a good college so just give the guy some real advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
DO you know him? He could be going to a good college so just give the guy some real advice.
Originally posted by Ballistik
It's a bit harder in high school....
I did give him good advice.

Stop focusing on meeting girls.
 

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Okay, look, before we turn this into some weird sort of college vs. girls debate....

1) There could be a whole forum devoted to getting into the college you want. Let's not start that here.

2) I asked where you've happened to meet lots of girls before. I still haven't gotten a single straight-up answer to that. Who says I'm not trying to improve myself? I'm just also trying to not spend every single waking moment of my life doing so.
 

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Wow, everyone else's replies suck. Saying "get into a good college instead of finding girls" is stupid, because you can very easily do both and enjoy highschool a lot more.

Meeting girls: school-related events are good. Any kind of extracurriculars, a sport, debate, whatever, will help you meet girls. This also makes them more dateable, because you already have a common interest.

Try going to malls, bookstores, libraries, etc etc and doing cold pickups if that's what is necessary.
 

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Originally posted by Ballistik
2) I asked where you've happened to meet lots of girls before. I still haven't gotten a single straight-up answer to that.
It's called the Search feature. This has been asked many times before.
 

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Only found a couple threads that didn't really help much with search. And, ya know, Rom, in the time it took you to write the three or four replies in this thread telling me every single reason why I shouldn't have posted it, you could have easily just listed a few places you've met some girls before.

Yeah, Game, I'm starting on the cold approach stuff, just looking for any possibilities that might be a bit warmer. Have met a few at the extracurriculars, but in general that ain't working for the same reason I can't just do it in school.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ouch

Da Game knows what's up. I'm in your situation too, bro. High school sucks and it's hard to get any girls outside of school besides straight cold approaches, and you usually won't find too many women your age because they don't go out too much at that age except to school. Also, once you sleep with enough women in high school you lose your reputation and it becomes FUKCIN HARD to get women, and it seriously hurts your ego.

I hate to say it, but if I could have done it all over I'd make a hot girlfriend in school, and then work on your game outside of school. Keep that girlfriend for two/three months, and then find a reason to break up with and move on to the next hotty in school. As for me, *college incoming!* So I'm done with the drama and the lack of females. 30,000 people enrolled in the community college I'm going to, and no telling how many girls from UF.
 

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The forum may not be a college promotion, but it also isn't all about meetin and screwin and all that crap. It's about bein a man, and college is an awesome step in that direction.

And to the guy who made this thread, you meet chicks everywhere...mall, school, wherever. Get some balls and approach em, it makes it a lot easier. There's no easy place where you go and girls jump on you...ya gotta bust out the skillz:D
 
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