So when girls touch you is never casual?

[Who Dares Win]

I heard and read (also here) that hardly girls just casually touch someone that instead have control of their proximity and contact with others and actively choose when to and when not.

Im not sure if I got it right, Im asking cause Im far from hot yet in these last days I was interacting with a group of girl at work and almost all of them either softly bashed my my torso after some teasing, some even put both hands on my forearm leaning toward me after some joke.

My joke are like my look, average at the most I guess its just the delivery to be good.

So is it just random happening or its a green light for you?

Any opinion on the topic is welcome not necessarily my case.

 

[AttackFormation]

In my experience when a girl touches you it means she likes you and wants you to open up (or likes that you did). I try to establish this kinda stuff asap whenever I interact with any girl and consider it the most positive sign possible. It's physical which is both an escalation from verbal and a sure green light, since doing it in itself proves that it's genuine unlike laughs that can be faked for politeness and such even with people they don't like.

 

[foreverAFC]

there is no casual touching, they are basically feeling you up. ive had women start feeling my arms and biceps out of nowhere, and ive had women at work and in public kind of bump into me just so they can put their hands on my shoulders or body as they pass by. its not casual or accidental at all.

 

[NSX-R]

I can surely tell you , every woman will start touching you if she wants you to do something more with her. They will initiate kino as soon as possible.

Kino is the forgotten art used by djs.

 

[Poonani Maker]

The girls that touch me at work or in business, generally have already asked me over to their house to watch a movie (like for Halloween or something). They ALL have kids though. I rarely get the early 20s girls to initiate the touch, but it's happened. They were usually highly liberal and just free free free spirited, and ageless I'd say, just very que sera sera oblivious takes on life. They didn't recognize their Value as young girls, so fertile and desirable by ANY male under 70 yrs old.

 

[marmel75]

It has no relevancy to your success with women whether their touches "mean something". Too many people on this forum want to analyze and over analyze everything that goes on and very little of it makes any difference whatsoever to your success or failure.

My advice is stop worrying and wondering about these irrelevant things. You'll be far better off and far more successful.

 

[AttackFormation]

It has no relevancy to your success with women whether their touches "mean something". Too many people on this forum want to analyze and over analyze everything that goes on and very little of it makes any difference whatsoever to your success or failure.

My advice is stop worrying and wondering about these irrelevant things. You'll be far better off and far more successful.

Well that's why he posted. I think most guys would consider this to be a no brainer in the first place and he asked to clear it up into being one for him too. Now he doesn't wonder anymore.

 

[Ratiocinative]

there is no casual touching, they are basically feeling you up. ive had women start feeling my arms and biceps out of nowhere, and ive had women at work and in public kind of bump into me just so they can put their hands on my shoulders or body as they pass by. its not casual or accidental at all.

You really think never? Even women that are very social and outgoing?

About a month ago I starting training BJJ and on my second day I was leaving and one of the women there kinda punched my shoulder\pec area and said "see you tomorrow". I hadn't had any interaction with her. I was just checking out all the classes and that one must have been an unpopular one or something because it was just her and 3 other guys. I was watching them roll and it seemed like she was looking up at me quite a bit. I didn't think much of it, but that's the only "interaction" we had. After that I was leaving with a friend and that's when she walked by and play punched me.

My first day there was another new guy and he said it was her that had invited him, and I can guarantee there was no romantic interest there. I assumed that she must just really like inviting new people and making new people feel welcome. Either way, I haven't seen her since... or at least I don't think I have. They all look the same in their Gis and hair tied up in a bun, lol. If I do see her again I'll tease her about it and see where it leads, but I'm not convinced it isn't a strong possibility that it was just casual.

 

[Mike32ct]

I heard and read (also here) that hardly girls just casually touch someone that instead have control of their proximity and contact with others and actively choose when to and when not.

Im not sure if I got it right, Im asking cause Im far from hot yet in these last days I was interacting with a group of girl at work and almost all of them either softly bashed my my torso after some teasing, some even put both hands on my forearm leaning toward me after some joke.

My joke are like my look, average at the most I guess its just the delivery to be good.

So is it just random happening or its a green light for you?

Any opinion on the topic is welcome not necessarily my case.

I would say that women who touch you have SOME level of atttaction for you. It can range from low to high. All of the platonic female friends I have ever had have been completely "hands off."

Every time I've been touched has been in a somewhat flirtatious context.

Some people might say, "Well maybe she's just the touchy type who does that with everyone." Honestly, I can't think of such a female. They are always quite selective about who they touch.