"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So What's the Normal Reaction You Have When Another Guy Calls Her a "B1tch"

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dante420

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Alle_Gory said:
Her is who?

What???

Let's say your with your girlfriend at a public place like a mall and some guy walks by you and your girl and calls the girl your with a "b1tch"?
 

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A friend of mine got his ass beat in a very nice restaurant by pulling that move. Called some girl he used to know a ****, she told her new guy and he beat the **** out of him until we broke them up.
 

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Dante420 said:
Let's say your with your girlfriend at a public place like a mall and some guy walks by you and your girl and calls the girl your with a "b1tch"?
I smile ****y-like and say something like "yeah, isn't it great!" with enthusiasm.

If it's the "slut" word, it'll be something like "sucks when a guy gets turned down even by sluts". She won't be really pissed because you instantly removed the effect she fears the slut word has. Plus, he'll be throw off balance and if you go back to what you were doing he'll wander off.

Girls of course love it when you aren't effected by the world, and more importantly won't be upset about what people say about her to you. They aren't worried about what the guy said, they're instantly worried about what YOU and other people think about it.

Whenever someone says something derogatory about your girl, be the more intelligent and better man, instantly show it didn't effect you, come off with a congruent ****y comment, laugh, and go back to what you were doing with the girl.

Almost all guys think showing anger or getting into a fight would be best, but showing her that other people can't change how you feel about her is 100x more effective. You're a unique man to her now, your feeling about her will only change due to her own actions, not what anyone else in the world has to say.

Plus, you're doing something she cannot do, dealing with that sort of insult and completely keeping your composure. You're a real MAN!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I completely agree with making fun of it
because any woman would LOVE to see her date taking a
swing at another guy to defend her honor
or even better yet two guys fighting over her.



Punk #1 Hey K, your woman's a lying, cheating b!tch!!
Punk #2 *with arms flailing* Hope you have good dental cuz no one talks that way about my girl!!!

Poof! she's the PRIZE
 

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K2000kidd said:
I completely agree with making fun of it
because any woman would LOVE to see her date taking a
swing at another guy to defend her honor
or even better yet two guys fighting over her.

Punk #1 Hey K, your woman's a lying, cheating b!tch!!
Punk #2 *with arms flailing* Hope you have good dental cuz no one talks that way about my girl!!!

Poof! she's the PRIZE
Heh, you owe me a new keyboard!

And, now she can stir up trouble any time she wants to wield some power.

Once a girl starts being able to get a guy into fights over a few words (or worse, HER SAYING a guy said something bad to her) he can't suddenly stop running off to defend his prize in the future.

She now owns a pit bull that she pats on the head once in a while "good boy!".

On top of that, when she gets pissed off at him and wants to move on to another guy she can maneuver him into getting his own ass beat as well. I've seen that happen more than a few times when a girl has been about to break up with an AFC.

The dumped AFC is then sitting there thinking "I was a man, I always defended her honor with my fists!" without realizing what was really happening.
 

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Courtney love: Hey Axl, will you be the god father of our child?
*Everyone laughs*
Axl Rose: (directed at Cobain) Hey! Tell that b**** of yours to shut up!!!
Kurt Cobain: (Sarcastically at Courtney) Shut up, you b****!
*Everyone rolling on the ground with laughter*
Axl walks away pissed, looking like a tool



Random guy: (directed at your gf) B****!
You: (directed at gf) Aww... you're my b****.. *Naughty GRINNNN, intense eye contact*
both of you laugh
 
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