"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So What's the Normal Reaction You Have When Another Guy Calls Her a "B1tch"

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory said:
Her is who?

What???

Let's say your with your girlfriend at a public place like a mall and some guy walks by you and your girl and calls the girl your with a "b1tch"?
 

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A friend of mine got his ass beat in a very nice restaurant by pulling that move. Called some girl he used to know a ****, she told her new guy and he beat the **** out of him until we broke them up.
 

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Dante420 said:
Let's say your with your girlfriend at a public place like a mall and some guy walks by you and your girl and calls the girl your with a "b1tch"?
I smile ****y-like and say something like "yeah, isn't it great!" with enthusiasm.

If it's the "slut" word, it'll be something like "sucks when a guy gets turned down even by sluts". She won't be really pissed because you instantly removed the effect she fears the slut word has. Plus, he'll be throw off balance and if you go back to what you were doing he'll wander off.

Girls of course love it when you aren't effected by the world, and more importantly won't be upset about what people say about her to you. They aren't worried about what the guy said, they're instantly worried about what YOU and other people think about it.

Whenever someone says something derogatory about your girl, be the more intelligent and better man, instantly show it didn't effect you, come off with a congruent ****y comment, laugh, and go back to what you were doing with the girl.

Almost all guys think showing anger or getting into a fight would be best, but showing her that other people can't change how you feel about her is 100x more effective. You're a unique man to her now, your feeling about her will only change due to her own actions, not what anyone else in the world has to say.

Plus, you're doing something she cannot do, dealing with that sort of insult and completely keeping your composure. You're a real MAN!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I completely agree with making fun of it
because any woman would LOVE to see her date taking a
swing at another guy to defend her honor
or even better yet two guys fighting over her.



Punk #1 Hey K, your woman's a lying, cheating b!tch!!
Punk #2 *with arms flailing* Hope you have good dental cuz no one talks that way about my girl!!!

Poof! she's the PRIZE
 

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K2000kidd said:
I completely agree with making fun of it
because any woman would LOVE to see her date taking a
swing at another guy to defend her honor
or even better yet two guys fighting over her.

Punk #1 Hey K, your woman's a lying, cheating b!tch!!
Punk #2 *with arms flailing* Hope you have good dental cuz no one talks that way about my girl!!!

Poof! she's the PRIZE
Heh, you owe me a new keyboard!

And, now she can stir up trouble any time she wants to wield some power.

Once a girl starts being able to get a guy into fights over a few words (or worse, HER SAYING a guy said something bad to her) he can't suddenly stop running off to defend his prize in the future.

She now owns a pit bull that she pats on the head once in a while "good boy!".

On top of that, when she gets pissed off at him and wants to move on to another guy she can maneuver him into getting his own ass beat as well. I've seen that happen more than a few times when a girl has been about to break up with an AFC.

The dumped AFC is then sitting there thinking "I was a man, I always defended her honor with my fists!" without realizing what was really happening.
 

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Courtney love: Hey Axl, will you be the god father of our child?
*Everyone laughs*
Axl Rose: (directed at Cobain) Hey! Tell that b**** of yours to shut up!!!
Kurt Cobain: (Sarcastically at Courtney) Shut up, you b****!
*Everyone rolling on the ground with laughter*
Axl walks away pissed, looking like a tool



Random guy: (directed at your gf) B****!
You: (directed at gf) Aww... you're my b****.. *Naughty GRINNNN, intense eye contact*
both of you laugh
 
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