"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So what's the next move? First time situation

faiNt`

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Posting here because HS section do not get answered as often/well. I'll make it as short as I can.

A girl who I've known for about a year (friends EDIT:// acquaintances rather, we weren't "friends" really) asked me to a dance. I know she realized we were more than friends after that because she talked to me about it. We hooked up for a (very) little before my ride got there. I was being f*cking stupid at the time and didn't act quickly so it was cut short.

More recently I thought I'd fall back into the FZ if we didn't hook up again, so I told her one day that we were going back to her house to "hang out." She said no and gave me a lot of reasons that sounded like bullsh*t. I don't want to get into it, but (most) were stupid. Whatever.

I don't want to ask again, because that would be needy/desperate, so what's next?

I'm kinda confused here; come to think of it, I've NEVER been in this situation before.


EDIT:// quick question too, what do you do when a girl does C + F and negs back? lol :$
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tha Realnezz

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What do you think happens next?She dissed you,move on.

When it doubt,move on.Trust me...
 
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