"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So what's the next move? First time situation

faiNt`

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Posting here because HS section do not get answered as often/well. I'll make it as short as I can.

A girl who I've known for about a year (friends EDIT:// acquaintances rather, we weren't "friends" really) asked me to a dance. I know she realized we were more than friends after that because she talked to me about it. We hooked up for a (very) little before my ride got there. I was being f*cking stupid at the time and didn't act quickly so it was cut short.

More recently I thought I'd fall back into the FZ if we didn't hook up again, so I told her one day that we were going back to her house to "hang out." She said no and gave me a lot of reasons that sounded like bullsh*t. I don't want to get into it, but (most) were stupid. Whatever.

I don't want to ask again, because that would be needy/desperate, so what's next?

I'm kinda confused here; come to think of it, I've NEVER been in this situation before.


EDIT:// quick question too, what do you do when a girl does C + F and negs back? lol :$
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tha Realnezz

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What do you think happens next?She dissed you,move on.

When it doubt,move on.Trust me...
 
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