"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what's the next move? First time situation

faiNt`

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Posting here because HS section do not get answered as often/well. I'll make it as short as I can.

A girl who I've known for about a year (friends EDIT:// acquaintances rather, we weren't "friends" really) asked me to a dance. I know she realized we were more than friends after that because she talked to me about it. We hooked up for a (very) little before my ride got there. I was being f*cking stupid at the time and didn't act quickly so it was cut short.

More recently I thought I'd fall back into the FZ if we didn't hook up again, so I told her one day that we were going back to her house to "hang out." She said no and gave me a lot of reasons that sounded like bullsh*t. I don't want to get into it, but (most) were stupid. Whatever.

I don't want to ask again, because that would be needy/desperate, so what's next?

I'm kinda confused here; come to think of it, I've NEVER been in this situation before.


EDIT:// quick question too, what do you do when a girl does C + F and negs back? lol :$
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tha Realnezz

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What do you think happens next?She dissed you,move on.

When it doubt,move on.Trust me...
 
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