Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ace of Flames said:Why does it matter? A better question, why make a whole thread on it? And it probably belongs in the Anything Else forum, while I'm at it.
Just listen to what appeals to you, no matter who it comes from.
Ding, ding ding ding, ding, ding - the guy wins a teddy bear!aftershock said:He's Puerto Rican Lover.
Suprised no-one else has said anything.
I give the best advice and best insight of any poster on this forum since its' inception! And yes this is an outlet for me for entertainment and humor - humor requires interaction!rrrrr said:every once in a while i think he gives decent advice but i think that this is mostly an outlet for him to give us his supposed humor.
Don't take everything I say so seriouslyryannath said:LastManStanding is the 44-year-old virgin. I'm not joking. He's admitted it.
Yapper said:can he be trusted? is he a pimp?
LMS do you get the hors?
Yes, take from this forum what best suits you - differing views create more options. I am alone in my thinking so you need someone like me to offer that unique perspective!!Ace of Flames said:Why does it matter? A better question, why make a whole thread on it? And it probably belongs in the Anything Else forum, while I'm at it.
Just listen to what appeals to you, no matter who it comes from.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hmmmmmm, I thought you apoligized to me and made a truce but then here you go starting the name calling!!! One sentence of one my posts have more insight than all of your posts combined!!!lookyoung said:I understand what your saying. But, when you are starting a thread and trying to discuss a serious topic, He will invade your thread with stupid comments. It just seems like he is on this forum to poke fun at people for the most part. Very few of his posts are genuine. Imagine if everyone posted like this loser, the whole sosuave would be a joke. I think people should at least try to be courteous to one another.
I rather have a guy that uses bad languages, speaks up for himself, than have someone like LMS who 95% of the time never gives any serious advice. Personally if it was up to me this guy would be banned.
that sounds like retarded advice. i don't want to fill my mind with a bunch of crap some loser pulled out of his ass that has no basis in real world experience just cause i think it sounds nice then i go out and fall on my ass.Ace of Flames said:Why does it matter? A better question, why make a whole thread on it? And it probably belongs in the Anything Else forum, while I'm at it.
Just listen to what appeals to you, no matter who it comes from.
Oh sorry, I assumed people had enough common sense to either:Yapper said:that sounds like retarded advice. i don't want to fill my mind with a bunch of crap some loser pulled out of his ass that has no basis in real world experience just cause i think it sounds nice then i go out and fall on my ass.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If Last Man Standing is PRL, then you guys had better listen up. This is a guy that has excellent information, and he knows what he's talking about.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.