so what should i do

[cantgetright]

So I've been talking to an older woman for the past several weeks. We can see each other everyday but I try not to. We see each other at a school. She is not a student and she is very attractive. She's probably in her mid 30s while I'm in my late 20s. She's hot understand that and I like older women anyways.

Either way I think I gave to much to soon, I bailed out for a week and she actually sought me out after I retreated. At this point I had to confess I had no car because she was throwing all kinds of signals to take her out as well as sexual signals. Clearly showing me her T&A. She kind of seemed put off by my lack of "responsibility " if you will. She really gave me the cold shoulder so again I backed off and again her she came. This time showing me a coupon book, flipping through it without saying a word, i could have made suggestions but i really dont feel like spending dough right now.

It doesn't seem like she will pick me up, or respect me if I show up in a bus and wait for her where ever. I think I blew it, mainly because I think she expects more, especially respect.

I don't know tho. She has no problem(as far as I know) when I touch her, and she seemed to like it. I think she is really enjoying my attention, and seems genuinely intrested. I. I also think she is testing me alot as far as how much im willing to let her control and manipulate me. I think she would atleast give me one date but I think I need to also make her feel comfortable at the same time. Not having car makes me look like damn kid.

I think I jumped the gun, or maybe don't have a chance in hell. The last convo we had went well I guess, I didn't like how her back was to me a lot when she was sitting(used to face me a lot) but she loved my sexual joke, and appeared to blush when I kissed her hand goodbye. She must think I'm a damn idiot for supposedly not picking up her signals but I did and didn't act on them cause of my financial situation. Probably annoyed her to.

I'm thinking I should leave it at that, pop smoke and retreat for good. The question is, would she give a chance once I'm more independent(without doing it for her)? I don't want to come off as a loser, I just think she is smoking hot. She really responded well to me until I screwed up.?

 

[Spinning Spinning]

Haven't you got a mate that can loan you the car? Or save up and get a limo that will impress for sure. This girl has definitely got it for you bro and TBH 35+ women go OFF! Do whatever it takes.....NO REGRETS!

 

[cantgetright]

No not really, these aholes would rather see me suffer than score. I really think I blew it already. I acted to stupid and the only remedy is to pop smoke for a minute.

My whole thing is i don't want to put to much effort into a date. I know she will lose respect. I've thought about taxis and such, but i think she wants more than sex. Oh well time will tell. She is a fine ass woman really, atleast I think so.

 

[Fly By Night]

So I've been talking to an older woman for the past several weeks. We can see each other everyday but I try not to. We see each other at a school. She is not a student and she is very attractive. She's probably in her mid 30s while I'm in my late 20s. She's hot understand that and I like older women anyways.

Either way I think I gave to much to soon, I bailed out for a week and she actually sought me out after I retreated. At this point I had to confess I had no car because she was throwing all kinds of signals to take her out as well as sexual signals. Clearly showing me her T&A. She kind of seemed put off by my lack of "responsibility " if you will. She really gave me the cold shoulder so again I backed off and again her she came. This time showing me a coupon book, flipping through it without saying a word, i could have made suggestions but i really dont feel like spending dough right now.

It doesn't seem like she will pick me up, or respect me if I show up in a bus and wait for her where ever. I think I blew it, mainly because I think she expects more, especially respect.

I don't know tho. She has no problem(as far as I know) when I touch her, and she seemed to like it. I think she is really enjoying my attention, and seems genuinely intrested. I. I also think she is testing me alot as far as how much im willing to let her control and manipulate me. I think she would atleast give me one date but I think I need to also make her feel comfortable at the same time. Not having car makes me look like damn kid.

I think I jumped the gun, or maybe don't have a chance in hell. The last convo we had went well I guess, I didn't like how her back was to me a lot when she was sitting(used to face me a lot) but she loved my sexual joke, and appeared to blush when I kissed her hand goodbye. She must think I'm a damn idiot for supposedly not picking up her signals but I did and didn't act on them cause of my financial situation. Probably annoyed her to.

I'm thinking I should leave it at that, pop smoke and retreat for good. The question is, would she give a chance once I'm more independent(without doing it for her)? I don't want to come off as a loser, I just think she is smoking hot. She really responded well to me until I screwed up.?

Someone needs to read up on confidence.

EDIT: I really don't think you should weight all your ****in' chances with her on the fact that you don't have a car.