So what is the deal i have to ask girl out right when i see her?

[marmel75]

I have her number but when i called her she didnt answer and she replied to my text the next day. Its better to ask out in person? How should i do it if i see her in class every week? I think i should try in person at least i go next wensday to class.

You should stop obsessing over this one woman and get more options because even if she goes out with you, it is apparent you are so desperate you are going to Fvck it up anyway

 

[Visionist]

Absolutely open up your day game and get some numbers. It will really help take the edge off this chick and you'll quickly realize there's nothing she has that other girls can't offer you.

 

[Visionist]

To add to this thread, a pretty but not especially sexy girl (very slim and pale) began my dance class this week and I've been teasing her, c*cky-funny comments, displaying group value by singing and sharing classy songs with everyone, and of course, dancing with her ("you're a good teacher" she said). Last night we were all at a rustic dance-restaurant affair in the boondocks, and through conversation I realized we have very little in common. She clearly likes our instructor (he's six-three, ripped to shreds and a professional dance champion) as whilst she didn't resist my kino, she freely initiated it with him. I demostrated further value by casually buying my friends, including her, a round with a big banknote, which widened her eyes. We didn't dance as much as I'm still a novice and shy on the floor.

Cutting to the chase; towards the end of the evening I told her she was an interesting person despite not liking Nutella (whilst I helped myself to Nutella pizza) and that we should hang-out,. "We'll see" she said, walking away. She pretty much ignored me after that; we shared the back of our instructor's car on the way back to class where our own cars were parked, and she was buried in her phone. I made sure to ignore her and lower the armrest between us. She left without saying goodbye. She likes walking as do I; I'll treat her exactly the same as before for the next week's lessons and if she's receptive, tell her to come for a walk with me somewhere scenic next Sunday. If she isn't game, I won't even bother getting her number or adding her on FB. The trick of course is to treat her the same way as before without any awkwardness, something one needs to learn to do through practice and experience.

 

[MrWood]

she has no interest in you,
better back off if you want to even just be a friend
3 strikes your out, or whatever out is in cricket

 

[ubercat]

I lost a girl in the same fashion once. She used to be a bit chubby and became a born again gym rat. She branch swung to her gym instructor. Who unsurprisingly turned out to be a total drop kick in the rest of life. Combo of ripped to shreds and bad boy - what worthless s*** could resist.

Of course I was a total AFC in those days so I had no clue what had happened.
Now I think that some girls are obsessive so they throw themselves 100% into some new interest and of course their hypergamous nature causes them to get a moisty for the leader of that group.

She found a nice guy pops 2 kids and became a huge shebeast again. So I ducked a whole clip on that 1

So if you do fancy this chick I would suggest you play it cool with her game the others and wait for her to realise that this guy is just a big fish in a tiny pond. Guaranteed that is how it will play out.

At this stage my advice would be not to ask her anywhere. And be aware that this one is just for the bang, probably not probably not girlfriend material