"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So what is Indiana Like?

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I am thinkin about goin their after I graduate to spend time with this girl that is movin there(she iss a very good friend). She is movin to this place called Newburgh but she is movin again to this place called Columbus Indiana she told me. So if u can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. What is Indiana like? the population, the people, the place, all that sh*t, watever info yall can come up with to tell me.


I'm from Richmond, Virginia
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dadmonson said:
I am thinkin about goin their after I graduate to spend time with this girl that is movin there(she iss a very good friend). She is movin to this place called Newburgh but she is movin again to this place called Columbus Indiana she told me. So if u can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. What is Indiana like? the population, the people, the place, all that sh*t, watever info yall can come up with to tell me.


I'm from Richmond, Virginia
Well, my friend moved there from New Jersey and he HATES it. Indiana is a very flat state, has poor roads, mainly agricultural and is not very ethnically diverse. However, it does have Notre Dame University, the cost of living is very cheap and you are within driving distance of some cool places (Chicago, Louisville...etc.)

I would not go by what my friend says though. He is from the east coast, misses being by the water and did not make any friends out there. This could be the main reason why he hates it.
 

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newberg indiana is very tiny. my cousin lives there and works at a nursing home.

the area smells like fertilizer and looks like corn.
 

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Re:

dadmonson said:
I am thinkin about goin their after I graduate to spend time with this girl that is movin there(she iss a very good friend). She is movin to this place called Newburgh but she is movin again to this place called Columbus Indiana she told me. So if u can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. What is Indiana like? the population, the people, the place, all that sh*t, watever info yall can come up with to tell me.


I'm from Richmond, Virginia

LOL, I dated a girl in Columbus, Ind. There is nothing there however you're about a 40 minute drive from Indianapolis which is a decent town. You're also about 50 minutes from Louisville which is where I live. But most of the town in Indiana are boring. Ft Wayne is the next biggest city in Indiana, which is about 90 minutes away from you but its kind of dull there too.
 

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I live here in northern indiana about 30 min. south of notre dame and the description given is pretty accurate. Flat, agricultural, mostly white christian citizens. We find things to do here, but if you're coming from a big city it will take awhile to get used to and you will probably go back. All I have to say is this girl better be good for it to be wirth it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I live in Fort Wayne, IN. It's relatively nice place. Good place to raise a family. It's safer than alot of other places.
 

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Indiana? He's exactly like Harrison Ford.

Well, but with some rugged clothes, a hat and a whip, he's one sadistic mofo.
 

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I'm visiting indiana right now for the fourth of july. I'm going nuts, this place is so dull and boring. I lived there for 3 and a half years... and let me tell you there is NOTHING.
 

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It was one of those things where I said maybe Ill come and visit u one day(I didn't say I will),

For those that live in Indiana, do any of yall kno anybody with the last name tormoehlen?
 
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