"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So what is Indiana Like?

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I am thinkin about goin their after I graduate to spend time with this girl that is movin there(she iss a very good friend). She is movin to this place called Newburgh but she is movin again to this place called Columbus Indiana she told me. So if u can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. What is Indiana like? the population, the people, the place, all that sh*t, watever info yall can come up with to tell me.


I'm from Richmond, Virginia
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dadmonson said:
I am thinkin about goin their after I graduate to spend time with this girl that is movin there(she iss a very good friend). She is movin to this place called Newburgh but she is movin again to this place called Columbus Indiana she told me. So if u can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. What is Indiana like? the population, the people, the place, all that sh*t, watever info yall can come up with to tell me.


I'm from Richmond, Virginia
Well, my friend moved there from New Jersey and he HATES it. Indiana is a very flat state, has poor roads, mainly agricultural and is not very ethnically diverse. However, it does have Notre Dame University, the cost of living is very cheap and you are within driving distance of some cool places (Chicago, Louisville...etc.)

I would not go by what my friend says though. He is from the east coast, misses being by the water and did not make any friends out there. This could be the main reason why he hates it.
 

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newberg indiana is very tiny. my cousin lives there and works at a nursing home.

the area smells like fertilizer and looks like corn.
 

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Re:

dadmonson said:
I am thinkin about goin their after I graduate to spend time with this girl that is movin there(she iss a very good friend). She is movin to this place called Newburgh but she is movin again to this place called Columbus Indiana she told me. So if u can help me, it would be greatly appreciated. What is Indiana like? the population, the people, the place, all that sh*t, watever info yall can come up with to tell me.


I'm from Richmond, Virginia

LOL, I dated a girl in Columbus, Ind. There is nothing there however you're about a 40 minute drive from Indianapolis which is a decent town. You're also about 50 minutes from Louisville which is where I live. But most of the town in Indiana are boring. Ft Wayne is the next biggest city in Indiana, which is about 90 minutes away from you but its kind of dull there too.
 

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I live here in northern indiana about 30 min. south of notre dame and the description given is pretty accurate. Flat, agricultural, mostly white christian citizens. We find things to do here, but if you're coming from a big city it will take awhile to get used to and you will probably go back. All I have to say is this girl better be good for it to be wirth it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I live in Fort Wayne, IN. It's relatively nice place. Good place to raise a family. It's safer than alot of other places.
 

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Indiana? He's exactly like Harrison Ford.

Well, but with some rugged clothes, a hat and a whip, he's one sadistic mofo.
 

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I'm visiting indiana right now for the fourth of july. I'm going nuts, this place is so dull and boring. I lived there for 3 and a half years... and let me tell you there is NOTHING.
 

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It was one of those things where I said maybe Ill come and visit u one day(I didn't say I will),

For those that live in Indiana, do any of yall kno anybody with the last name tormoehlen?
 
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