"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So what is going to happen to this woman?

2Rocky

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I have a neighbor. She is 39 years old, models for a national brand, and has a professional career in a physically demanding sport. She plays a behind the scenes role in her family business and has a 501c3 (volunteer) business. I've never seen her in a relationship and she seems to be fiercely independent, and very committed to empowering girls and women.

She is has a very active social media presence never been married or had kids and I've never seen her in a situation where she seems to be dating or have a boyfriend. She has said " it would take another professional athlete to understand her".

While she is still as attractive as she was in her 20's, I think she is probably losing a step or two in her sports career just due to age. I think her modelling career is tied to that as well. She is very proud of her family ( all of whom I know, and know me) but hasn't settled for a man or family or tried to make one work from what I can see.

Do you think she is unable to pair bond?
Is she going to have a crisis about starting a family of her own rather than being an aunt?
is there such a thing as an attractive old maid?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Some women will brave the wall and probably still be successful past it; a professional athlete sounds like one of those types... If her body is in very good shape, her ability to have at least a single child will probably be extended past the average woman, but this is just speculation.

So, even though she is 39, if she continues her lifestyle she will probably squeeze maybe even another 10 years, again, the risks are high past 40 but this sounds like an ideal situation.

This fruit is still hanging quite high, all things said.
 

Lookatu

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She is going to die alone or have to find her Stedman type to have a weird partnership going. She probably has the Oprah Winfrey mentality.
Of course there are always dog and cat alternatives...
 

jaymbrs

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She'll probably settle for a younger, successful guy when she hits her mid to late 40s.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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