"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So what is going to happen to this woman?

2Rocky

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I have a neighbor. She is 39 years old, models for a national brand, and has a professional career in a physically demanding sport. She plays a behind the scenes role in her family business and has a 501c3 (volunteer) business. I've never seen her in a relationship and she seems to be fiercely independent, and very committed to empowering girls and women.

She is has a very active social media presence never been married or had kids and I've never seen her in a situation where she seems to be dating or have a boyfriend. She has said " it would take another professional athlete to understand her".

While she is still as attractive as she was in her 20's, I think she is probably losing a step or two in her sports career just due to age. I think her modelling career is tied to that as well. She is very proud of her family ( all of whom I know, and know me) but hasn't settled for a man or family or tried to make one work from what I can see.

Do you think she is unable to pair bond?
Is she going to have a crisis about starting a family of her own rather than being an aunt?
is there such a thing as an attractive old maid?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Some women will brave the wall and probably still be successful past it; a professional athlete sounds like one of those types... If her body is in very good shape, her ability to have at least a single child will probably be extended past the average woman, but this is just speculation.

So, even though she is 39, if she continues her lifestyle she will probably squeeze maybe even another 10 years, again, the risks are high past 40 but this sounds like an ideal situation.

This fruit is still hanging quite high, all things said.
 

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She is going to die alone or have to find her Stedman type to have a weird partnership going. She probably has the Oprah Winfrey mentality.
Of course there are always dog and cat alternatives...
 

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She'll probably settle for a younger, successful guy when she hits her mid to late 40s.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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