So, what is going on??

[LifeFirst]

I'm new at this site so I just want to start it off with this situation here. This person I met in College last semester really had an effect on me. I have never ever had feelings for anyone before her. I have never ever liked anyone of the opposite sex before her. So I definitely do think she's special and there's something cool about her.

Anyways...Summer came and I had to goto another country for some school-related stuff. Didn't talk to her or anyone else at all during that time. But now I'm back. I live in the same dorm as her obviously. And she E-mailed me on the first or second day of school which said she wanted to see me. So when I went to see her, she literally almost jumped out of her chair. She was so elated to see me I guess and then we talked for about an hour or two before I gotta go.

So, I realized that she became waaaay more friendly with me than before. She asked me if I had a girlfriend...(what was that about anyways??)...she said she called so many times even though my phone wasn't working. And tried to ask people about me....and she was about to go around the entire building to look for me. Ok...by then, I thought she was on crack. I have never had anyone "look" for me like this before. So what's up??? Is this the way most girls act or is she showing intersest in me??

 

[Luveno]

You know, if it was anyone else besides me replying, they'd tell you how dense you are for not seeing the interest. I can't paint you that. I was in the exact same situation that you are in about 3 years ago. Thing is, I screwed it up, and I still regret it.
Here's what you do:

Don't get chatty on the phone. Ask her out to a nice martini place or something classy like that. Talk to her, but more importantly, LISTEN to her. Get a feel for her. Be suave. Be a don juan.
Take initiative. Kiss her goodnight. Make it long, and passionate on her doorstep or whatnot.

She may want to go further. Don't wuss out. Give her the banging of a lifetime.

Always assume when you're on a date that you will have them naked and satisfied within the next 12 hours. Trust me, it never fails.

 

[LifeFirst]

Yeah...I was just never in a situation like this before so I was left a little confused...anyways...I haven't talked or called her at all since last week...I gotta talk to her

 

[Dukester]

all i have to say is WOW!!!! hit that shiz nit man, and dont screw it up.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Are you shocked that a woman finds you desirable or is just happy to be in your company? Why don't you oblige her and take her to a fun activity. Whatever you do don't become her friend - either she sees you as a romantic partner or she doesn't see you at all!!! Comprende?

 

[LifeFirst]

^^^ Well...it's like this. If you read my first post I explained that she is the only person I have ever had feelings for. Back day when I was in High School or Middle School I was a mess. I just didn't give a f* ck about much of anything...but now in College I changed my act and have been getting looks from females in general....but I just find it real hard to like/trust people in general. Something about her just makes me happy...makes me smile...so I've never been in a situation like this before, so it it's pretty new to me. And I don't really want to screw it up either.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Great - be a man and control your own destiny and ask her out
!!!