"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It baffles me how a fine forum that young and old men alike come for advice and provide one or two when they can has diluted into name calling, race-baiting, political and religious intolerance. Moderating a forum such as this can be demanding but it is important for the moderators to take action against anyone violating the Forum Rules.

Below is a copy of the Forum Rules. These rules apply to all posts in all forums on sosuave, Anything Else forum is NOT an exception. Report ANYONE violating these rules to moderators. Let's clean this place up together.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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amoka said:
Let's clean this place up together
I say we start with you and any other pantsh!tting leftoid who can't handle any men who dare to wander off the reservation.

Here's a novel idea. Why not try beating them with logic instead of taking a leaf out of the fembot playbook and running to the mods?
 

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Why not try beating them with logic instead of taking a leaf out of the fembot playbook and running to the mods?
Ya think?
 

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amoka said:
Ya think?
Yeah I do. Men left to their own devices are generally pretty reasonable if your argument holds any water.

Don't get me wrong I understand you libs tend to freak out over a bit of real talk but think about it. If you do happen to turn this place into yet another haven for PC groupthink won't that by the very definition be promoting a sh!tlib ideology (aka a Political forum). Bit of a logic trap isn't it?
 

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How ironic would it be if one of the biggest platforms a community that laments the femcentric society we live in succumbs to the PC default environment we find ourselves in now
Well said. And lets say these handful of fainting goats actually are successful and turn this place into yet another PC haven for sh!tlibs, well then what? An anything else forum full of bread and circus about the big gayme over the weekend and jaylan giving us the lowdown on the latest bullsh!t of Hollyweird? Great. :down:


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I don't report the posts, merely put that poster on ignore after a few posts of stupidity
You mean your first instinct as an actual man isn't to cry to the (perceived) authorities to make the meany words go away?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I read other forums and blogs but this one is the only one I sign in to, post to, and visit regularly. Guys, our drama here is mosquito nut size in comparison to most of the Internet. We have a great community here. To those that think we do not, you can exit stage left anytime, nobody is forcing you to stay here bye byye :wave:
 

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Mauser96 said:
I don't report the posts, merely put that poster on ignore after a few posts of stupidity
A very prudent approach; however, few people have, lately, taken it upon themselves to insult and label anyone who disagrees with them. This can be difficult to simply ignore but, I'll consider your advice and add few more people to my ignore list.
 
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