"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So what do you reply when a girl asks you who you like?

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Alright, so the girl that I am interested in (Anna, again to those who have read previoius posts) sent me an email. It had a ton of stuff in it, but one of the things it said was asking who I liked. Well I like her.... a ton. More than I have ever "liked" a girl before. So what do you think I should reply. I've told her I liked her before but I'm not so sure about what I should put down now. If she stays single for a little while and the new things I've been doing work (or not) I may ask her out. Thanks for all the help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm not sure how old you two are, but that seems pretty juvenile. Don't play her little games, and above all, don't tell her that you like her. She asks you who you like? Tell her you like girls that are mature, strong, and are in touch with their sexuality who also are deserving of a wonderful, driven, masculine man like yourself. That's what I would say.
 

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Well then that would explain it. I'm not sure how to handle 14 year old girls.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Being as curious as she is about who you like, I wouldn't doubt that SHE liked you...but whatever...girls that young are crazy anyway.
 

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Or you could just ignore the question.

If she begs for the answer then assume her interest level is high.
 

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Or tell her you like everyone in the whole wide world, it really depends on how you act around her and treat her normally. Say somehting that fits in ith your character.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
Or you could just ignore the question.

If she begs for the answer then assume her interest level is high.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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triple_ultima was right saying that you should tell her some abstract stuff about THE GIRL YOU'D LIKE TO BE WITH. Don't tell her you like her as you have never ever liked another girl. That would blow it all. Maybe a couple of remarks that she *could* prolly fit into your girl ideal category, but nothing else. These ain't 14y old girl games- just get closer with some let's say 17y chick and keep up some detailed chatter and you'll get this question sooner or later 100%.
She's interested in ya bro, but cards in your hands must remain there until the right moment.
 

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Well, considering the fact that she asked you means that she probably does have interest in you. Don't blow it by telling her that you like her. Like everyone else said, the ball's in your court. In my opinion you have 2 options:

1. Tell her you like and are talking to other girls. This will raise her IL of you because you're not available.

2. Just ignore the question. If she's interested, she'll persist and keep asking and in turn, it will raise her IL of you :]

It's up to you
 

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same as above...
whenever a girl asks me who i like...i refuse to play that "oh, guess..." game...she wants to know...that sucks for her...i dont walk around giving out my social security number..its personal...so is who im interested in...if she cares...she might be into me...i dont fcuk it up big time...just drop a "whats it to you?"...
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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whenever a girl asks me i just say "you" and make a kissy face kinda gets the point across that i dont like her but maybe a blowj0b could change my mind it also works if you really do like her becuase she'll think you're just being sarcastic so she wont believe you
 

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"None of your business *wink*"

****in' 14 year olds :)
 

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Ok, I said that I liked another girl. So then she asked if I still liked her, so then I said "why do you want to know so badly? Interested?" and then she came back with "of course I'm interested in who you like" so she didn't fall for that at all. Then she said "we seem to be drifting apart" because I haven't been online as much and we didn't talk at school a whole ton.

What's your reccomendation to do next, oh masters.
 

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her: "who do you like"
me: "why? are you interested?"
her: "of course i'm interested in who you like"
me: "well everything comes at a price these days"
her: "how much you want?"
me: "nothing you can offer"

DAYUM!!! REJECTED!!

if she's really persistent, just do some ****y sh1t like so:

her: "of course i'm interested in who you like"
me: "oh.... OOHHH!!! I see....yea. i think you're interested in something else.";)
her: "like what?" (if she's daring)
me: "like your competition...duh."
_______________________________

Now if she's just annoying, or is one of thoes b1tches that just happen to be your "friend" be all like:

her: who do you like
you: ignore her
her: i said who do you like?
you: ::stare at her for a few seconds:: are you hitting on me?

I use that line all the time. They're like, "hell naw. he didn't just say that."

but eh, just never tell them anything. play around the subject a lot. then um....this family emergency should pop outta no where.:rolleyes:
 

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if i tell you, im gonna have to kill you. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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