"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So, what do women find MOST attractive?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Definately a gold digger mate...retired_dude said:
Be careful when you stand at the top of your staircase
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/6345623.stm
""Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner."
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Good article.NickSCFC2000 said:
Note that it was mentionned good looks were prefered by women in all circumstances
"Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top."
Kinda destroy the old "look don't matter" arguments. Not that it shouldn't suprised anyone that ever interacted with attractive women, just nice seeing it's back out by science.
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good article. Notice it said
"Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top."
Note it was mentionned women systematically prefer good looking men, sorta debunking the old notion that " look don't matter" I guess. Of course it shouldn't come as no suprise for anyone that ever interacted with attractive women.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Agrees. Women may deep down want or prefer attractive men but they still might end with less than attractive guys for whatever reasons.bigjohnson said:
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Dear god...billy007 said:
It's about knowing these girls. At uni all the fit girls are doing things like medicine, psychology, english, fashion, photography etc etc so if you're on one of these courses then you can get to know lots of women. You're then part of the crowd, you make friends and it goes from there.
If you're doing Maths, Physics, Engineering etc. EVEN if you're a cool/good looking/good body guy you don't have the luxury of meeting nice girls day in, day out and getting to know them. I mean sure guys on these kind of courses are typically nerdier/uglier etc etc but even cool guys doing such courses miss out.
I honestly don't believe it's much to do with any of the stuff on the list. All of those things help, all of them, some more than others, but from experience I find that the fit ones typically date guys on their course etc. or in that crowd. If you're not part of it all, you miss out. An ugly guy doing medicine has more fun usually than a good looing guy doing maths.
I wish I never did Maths and Physics at uni. :-|
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You can clearly see who all the Keyboard Jockeys are and its sad.
Serious Question - Do some of you guys even actually go out and practice. Or do you just like that good feeling of being in a forums and not actually doing anything.
I don't care what anyone says PERSONALITY is the most important. If you beg to differ then go out there and open mixed sets where the guy is better looking than you or richer. You will see you'll get the same results.
Now about social status its rather broad. But if you are considering "HIGH VALUE" as social status then "Social Status" would be important too, even though a person's personality in itself could give him high value.
But on another note if you do have status in the specific grounds then you can get laid. (The manager in a diner who fuks his female staff, the subway manager who also fuks his female staff, the guy who is the party host, etc) This is because in that specific situation he is higher value. But put that same guy to get girls in the street and if he doesn't have PERSONALITY he won't get much.
There isn't any need for me to go any further than this, go out there and see for yourself. If you have game you will always do better than the Tough guy, rich guy, good looking guy. Even if the guy has GAME, if your game is slightly better than your getting the girl, because your slightly cooler.
If you don't even know how to compentently approach women then it will be hard to actually try this experiment out because if you don't have game of course the good looking guy is going to outshine you because you don't know how to convey your personality. This is the only reason why some of you are saying other things are more than personality.
You just a Keyboard Jockey, or you don't even know what your doing when it comes to approaching. 95% of the community doesn't even approach the amount of chicks needed to actually internalize most of this stuff. Heck just look at some of the posts here of guys focusing on one particular girl and trying to get her for months.