For those of you who've been following the story of my little fling with the lady I met at my gym, she and I finally and quite predictably split about three days ago. Since marriage is what's on her mind and I had let her know I was honestly neither mentally nor psychologically prepared for such a commitment at the moment...she said in response that every woman in her age range (30s) does aspire to get married and that she wasn't any longer in her 20s to be able to settle for the kind of casual relationship where two people simply have fun and then part ways afterward. I perfectly understood her own perspective. We split in good terms after I gave her a good pounding last weekend and we agreed to remain friends.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So...We Finally Separated/Broke Up
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