For those of you who've been following the story of my little fling with the lady I met at my gym, she and I finally and quite predictably split about three days ago. Since marriage is what's on her mind and I had let her know I was honestly neither mentally nor psychologically prepared for such a commitment at the moment...she said in response that every woman in her age range (30s) does aspire to get married and that she wasn't any longer in her 20s to be able to settle for the kind of casual relationship where two people simply have fun and then part ways afterward. I perfectly understood her own perspective. We split in good terms after I gave her a good pounding last weekend and we agreed to remain friends.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So...We Finally Separated/Broke Up
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