You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You would think but thats not the case. This kid doesnt respond to rational ideas. He tries to munipulate people all the time. When he was trying to get with this one girl me and this other kid were trying to give him some tips but he didnt wanna listen. I dont think he even likes girls. If he does hook up with girls theyre incredibly ugly. I think he tries to cover it up cause when he sees ugly chicks he'll be like, "there some girls", i think its a front.Originally posted by diablo
Sounds to me like he's making excuses and likely not very confident with himself... perhaps this is your opportunity to help out someone less fortunate than yourself?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
then why are you hanging with him....(whyshy posted something on a similar topic, that would help u) whyshy get over here and link PLZOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
whos favorite show is american top model and loves celebrity gossip. When him and our other friends girlfriend get together they talk about celebrity news. He never says anything when he sees a hot girl and he says he doesnt get girls cause hes asian. Personally i think hes a h0m0sexual. Opinions are welcome...
Yea...uhh...i dont, he lives in a different state.Originally posted by E_ze05
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