She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You would think but thats not the case. This kid doesnt respond to rational ideas. He tries to munipulate people all the time. When he was trying to get with this one girl me and this other kid were trying to give him some tips but he didnt wanna listen. I dont think he even likes girls. If he does hook up with girls theyre incredibly ugly. I think he tries to cover it up cause when he sees ugly chicks he'll be like, "there some girls", i think its a front.Originally posted by diablo
Sounds to me like he's making excuses and likely not very confident with himself... perhaps this is your opportunity to help out someone less fortunate than yourself?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
then why are you hanging with him....(whyshy posted something on a similar topic, that would help u) whyshy get over here and link PLZOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
whos favorite show is american top model and loves celebrity gossip. When him and our other friends girlfriend get together they talk about celebrity news. He never says anything when he sees a hot girl and he says he doesnt get girls cause hes asian. Personally i think hes a h0m0sexual. Opinions are welcome...
Yea...uhh...i dont, he lives in a different state.Originally posted by E_ze05
then why are you hanging with him....(whyshy posted something on a similar topic, that would help u) whyshy get over here and link PLZ