She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You would think but thats not the case. This kid doesnt respond to rational ideas. He tries to munipulate people all the time. When he was trying to get with this one girl me and this other kid were trying to give him some tips but he didnt wanna listen. I dont think he even likes girls. If he does hook up with girls theyre incredibly ugly. I think he tries to cover it up cause when he sees ugly chicks he'll be like, "there some girls", i think its a front.Originally posted by diablo
Sounds to me like he's making excuses and likely not very confident with himself... perhaps this is your opportunity to help out someone less fortunate than yourself?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
then why are you hanging with him....(whyshy posted something on a similar topic, that would help u) whyshy get over here and link PLZOriginally posted by oakraiderz2
whos favorite show is american top model and loves celebrity gossip. When him and our other friends girlfriend get together they talk about celebrity news. He never says anything when he sees a hot girl and he says he doesnt get girls cause hes asian. Personally i think hes a h0m0sexual. Opinions are welcome...
Yea...uhh...i dont, he lives in a different state.Originally posted by E_ze05
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