"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So this is my problem...

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I am 19 years old... I am very good looking considering my previous relationships or the girls I did made out with... I am young but I am one of the most experienced person of my age at least from the ppl that I know! I had 2 "big" relationships for 1 year each and had sex with both of them... I've made sex with about 9 girls so far though the 1 wasn't that nice (down brain action)! So, my problem is that since I stopped having sex with a girl before 7 months everything collapsed! I mean, I was like the number one guy for girls and some kind of an example for my friends! Though I haven't change that much and my changes on my body and face have made me better, I have like 4 months to f*** and 8 months to f*** a new girl! I stopped school 1.5 year ago! When I was at school it was sooo easy! Girls would find my number or I could easily find theirs through a common friend or something! But now... Boom! Everything stopped! I don't like clubs so finding a girl there is impossible! Though I see some girls starring at me or something it's freakin difficult to get to a point to know them! My friends are like let's go to the same place over and over again! Helloo!! Nothin new is there... I am kind of disappointed at my self this time of my life... Any advice!?!? WTF where are all the girls gone after school?!? :/
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1. Learn to cold approach. You can do it anywhere, clubs, coffee shops, supermarkets, etc.

2. Did you drop out of school? What are you doing now? Do you have a job? Do you live on your own? Developing an attractive lifestyle is a big deal for men. If you're a drop out and living with your parents with a part-time job, that will eat into your results. Consider going back to school.

3. Looks don't mean ****.
 
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Entropy4 said:
1. Learn to cold approach. You can do it anywhere, clubs, coffee shops, supermarkets, etc.

2. Did you drop out of school? What are you doing now? Do you have a job? Do you live on your own? Developing an attractive lifestyle is a big deal for men. If you're a drop out and living with your parents with a part-time job, that will eat into your results. Consider going back to school.

3. Looks don't mean ****.
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Well I have a job with preety good incomes but still I am living with my parents! (that's how things are here in Greece at least till children go to university or something) well my big chance to leave home is from a month from now! to pass my tests and move somewhere far away from my place for studies... But still i am not like 25-30 so that I need my own place! I could work preety well even living with my parents!
 
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DonGorgon said:
You need a social circle... women dont like loners cause you have no friends for them to F.
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So, I guess I'll try to hang out with other ppl too except for my usual company, go to different places etc...
That's something I hadn't think of... I'll actually try it... ty
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuanit0 said:
So, I guess I'll try to hang out with other ppl too except for my usual company, go to different places etc...
That's something I hadn't think of... I'll actually try it... ty
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If you are young and single clubbing is still your best bet to quick easy weekly PU$$Y!!!
 
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DonGorgon said:
If you are young and single clubbing is still your best bet to quick easy weekly PU$$Y!!!
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Well the thing is that I hate clubs... I really do... I could easily f*** some previous girls I had but... I don't really miss sex! I miss my confidence on women! I want to prove to my self that f*** I"m still that person that back then had such a great success...
 
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DonJuanit0 said:
Well the thing is that I hate clubs... I really do... I could easily f*** some previous girls I had but... I don't really miss sex! I miss my confidence on women! I want to prove to my self that f*** I"m still that person that back then had such a great success...
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As you get older unless you become a celeb of sorts things tend to slow down alot .... The worst time for many starts at around 35. If you are single then its quite bad if you are not very rich , dont have model looks etc.. hence why most people tend to be in their "first marriage" during those years...
 
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Well, I guess I wasn't ready for such a big change! Despite all that I'll follow your advices and see if it will come out better!
 
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