"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So this is my problem...

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I am 19 years old... I am very good looking considering my previous relationships or the girls I did made out with... I am young but I am one of the most experienced person of my age at least from the ppl that I know! I had 2 "big" relationships for 1 year each and had sex with both of them... I've made sex with about 9 girls so far though the 1 wasn't that nice (down brain action)! So, my problem is that since I stopped having sex with a girl before 7 months everything collapsed! I mean, I was like the number one guy for girls and some kind of an example for my friends! Though I haven't change that much and my changes on my body and face have made me better, I have like 4 months to f*** and 8 months to f*** a new girl! I stopped school 1.5 year ago! When I was at school it was sooo easy! Girls would find my number or I could easily find theirs through a common friend or something! But now... Boom! Everything stopped! I don't like clubs so finding a girl there is impossible! Though I see some girls starring at me or something it's freakin difficult to get to a point to know them! My friends are like let's go to the same place over and over again! Helloo!! Nothin new is there... I am kind of disappointed at my self this time of my life... Any advice!?!? WTF where are all the girls gone after school?!? :/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. Learn to cold approach. You can do it anywhere, clubs, coffee shops, supermarkets, etc.

2. Did you drop out of school? What are you doing now? Do you have a job? Do you live on your own? Developing an attractive lifestyle is a big deal for men. If you're a drop out and living with your parents with a part-time job, that will eat into your results. Consider going back to school.

3. Looks don't mean ****.
 

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Entropy4 said:
1. Learn to cold approach. You can do it anywhere, clubs, coffee shops, supermarkets, etc.

2. Did you drop out of school? What are you doing now? Do you have a job? Do you live on your own? Developing an attractive lifestyle is a big deal for men. If you're a drop out and living with your parents with a part-time job, that will eat into your results. Consider going back to school.

3. Looks don't mean ****.
Well I have a job with preety good incomes but still I am living with my parents! (that's how things are here in Greece at least till children go to university or something) well my big chance to leave home is from a month from now! to pass my tests and move somewhere far away from my place for studies... But still i am not like 25-30 so that I need my own place! I could work preety well even living with my parents!
 

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DonGorgon said:
You need a social circle... women dont like loners cause you have no friends for them to F.
So, I guess I'll try to hang out with other ppl too except for my usual company, go to different places etc...
That's something I hadn't think of... I'll actually try it... ty
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonJuanit0 said:
So, I guess I'll try to hang out with other ppl too except for my usual company, go to different places etc...
That's something I hadn't think of... I'll actually try it... ty
If you are young and single clubbing is still your best bet to quick easy weekly PU$$Y!!!
 

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DonGorgon said:
If you are young and single clubbing is still your best bet to quick easy weekly PU$$Y!!!
Well the thing is that I hate clubs... I really do... I could easily f*** some previous girls I had but... I don't really miss sex! I miss my confidence on women! I want to prove to my self that f*** I"m still that person that back then had such a great success...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Well the thing is that I hate clubs... I really do... I could easily f*** some previous girls I had but... I don't really miss sex! I miss my confidence on women! I want to prove to my self that f*** I"m still that person that back then had such a great success...
As you get older unless you become a celeb of sorts things tend to slow down alot .... The worst time for many starts at around 35. If you are single then its quite bad if you are not very rich , dont have model looks etc.. hence why most people tend to be in their "first marriage" during those years...
 

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Well, I guess I wasn't ready for such a big change! Despite all that I'll follow your advices and see if it will come out better!
 
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