So this girl blocked me

[Theexocist124gh]

So I had been texting this girl from work for like two or three months, she was very much so interested in me. Always hugging me complimenting me very touchy-feely also, after a couple attempts to meet up cause both of us were busy. We set up a date a few days ago, as it was time for me to go see her she asked me what are we going to do today. Now it was probably miscommunication on my end cause I thought she wanted to just hang out an chill. She had got irritated cause she thought I wasn’t gonna take her on a real date so she sent me this long text, basically saying I’m not like these other girls who you probably dated in the past so when you decide to take me on a real date let me know. Then I got blocked so now how do I handle it how do I even handle seeing her at work ?

 

[marmel75]

Lmao...wow

 

[cola]

Don’t talk to girls at work.
Also she is right, you don’t invite girls to come “chill” the first time you hang out. That’s universal code for come over and f*ck. If you don’t have money to go out and do something, focus on that before dating.

 

[Theexocist124gh]

Don’t talk to girls at work.
Also she is right, you don’t invite girls to come “chill” the first time you hang out. That’s universal code for come over and f*ck. If you don’t have money to go out and do something, focus on that before dating.

That makes sense plus like I said it was miscommunication on me cause she kept saying chill an hang out honestly you think I would still have a chance with her though or is it just completely over

 

[marmel75]

That makes sense plus like I said it was miscommunication on me cause she kept saying chill an hang out honestly you think I would still have a chance with her though or is it just completely over

Be a man, grab your balls and go talk to her if you want something to happen.

Passiveness will get you nowhere.

 

[Medina]

I would take this as a very good sign

I'm almost turned on by it

I love it when girls over react this way

I would let her cool down for a few days

See her at work, act normal, playful

Then ask her out properly

 

[BJP1991]

First off, why so much useless texting? Several months of wasted time over texts and no actual date offer? Be a man a fvckin go for what you want and don’t be her emotional tampon via text. You’re talking this girl out of liking you instead of going on a fvcking date.

Second - she sounds a bit wacko and perhaps a little desperate.

 

[backseatjuan]

@Theexocist124gh she's not interested in dating you. there was no miscommunication on your part. she was just using you for online validation and sht. Now you totally remove any and all attention from her on work and never ask her out again.

That sht when girls say they are not like other girls, it's bull sht basically. They are all slts and they all fck left and right. This leaves you with sexual disinterest in you. From here on, do minimal texting, 10 - 20 minutes over the phone, and drinks at a bar, and dont' forget to escalate. That texting online for several months these btches can get from other men, mislead them, and when the time comes claim they are not that girl.

She's a fcking slt.

 

[sazc]

Be happy you dodged that bullet

 

[Dash Riprock]

She's 80% correct.

I see you're 28 so I assume she's around the same age. At 28, you should have some $ to plan and pay for a decent date. Not saying expensive dinner, etc., but drinks at an avant garde bar or restaurant or do mini golf or a nice hike and pack a lunch, etc, etc. If this girl is worth anything, you need to be different and separate yourself from the lethargic, lazy, vanilla, and boring men she's used to. You did nothing to accentuate yourself, so I agree largely in her reaction.

Be a MAN next time and:

1-PLAN: Women LOVE a man with a plan, because so few do.
2-BE CREATIVE: Drinks and oysters, or an action date, ANYTHING beside what you offered
3-TEASE HER: This sparks interest, tell her you're doing a karaoke duet with her, oyster eating contest, whatever...be FUN, not boring.
4-COMMUNICATE: On the date chide her a bit, ask open ended questions, keep the focus on her. Give her a tidbit about you every so often. How do you do this when you're at your place "hanging out" or watching tv?? You don't.

The more I think about it, she was 95% right. The blocking is a little extreme but at least she sees value in herself. She's probably fed up with the losers she's been dating at this point. Can't blame her. I date girls in her age range and all they do is b*itch about guys their age. I end up f*ucking a lot of them because I act like a MAN not a "boy."

Hopefully you'll learn.

Good luck.

~Dash~

 

[Theexocist124gh]

She's 80% correct.

I see you're 28 so I assume she's around the same age. At 28, you should have some $ to plan and pay for a decent date. Not saying expensive dinner, etc., but drinks at an avant garde bar or restaurant or do mini golf or a nice hike and pack a lunch, etc, etc. If this girl is worth anything, you need to be different and separate yourself from the lethargic, lazy, vanilla, and boring men she's used to. You did nothing to accentuate yourself, so I agree largely in her reaction.

Be a MAN next time and:

1-PLAN: Women LOVE a man with a plan, because so few do.
2-BE CREATIVE: Drinks and oysters, or an action date, ANYTHING beside what you offered
3-TEASE HER: This sparks interest, tell her you're doing a karaoke duet with her, oyster eating contest, whatever...be FUN, not boring.
4-COMMUNICATE: On the date chide her a bit, ask open ended questions, keep the focus on her. Give her a tidbit about you every so often. How do you do this when you're at your place "hanging out" or watching tv?? You don't.

The more I think about it, she was 95% right. The blocking is a little extreme but at least she sees value in herself. She's probably fed up with the losers she's been dating at this point. Can't blame her. I date girls in her age range and all they do is b*itch about guys their age. I end up f*ucking a lot of them because I act like a MAN not a "boy."

Hopefully you'll learn.

Good luck.

~Dash~

I see what you mean the thing was I didn’t have a issue with taking her out on a date money wasn’t a problem or anything it’s just when we talked earlier about seeing each other she kept saying chill an hang out not like anything as far as going out cause yes most girl I’ve been with in the past when they say let’s chill an hang out we usually end up having sex the moment I arrive at their place or they come to mine but I didn’t think she would get that emotional to the point of blocking me

 

[Alvafe]

meh too overthinking,
you offered, she get bat sh!t crazy, you laught it off, and keep things profissional on job,
when a woman say she is not like others, you can bet your hairy a$$ she is, she is so used to it, then when you used that on her she went crazy, possible she though of you as a provider, and you break her on that

best way to work now would be ignore her and let her starve, I bet then less then a week worse case a month she will unblock you and try to fish you in again

 

[GrowingPains]

Be a man, grab your balls and go talk to her if you want something to happen.

Passiveness will get you nowhere.

The answer to 50% of posts ^

 

[Theexocist124gh]

A date doesn't have to be expensive, but "chill" may have been the wrong words.

Write her off, and move on.

When you see her at work, treat her as you did 3 months ago.

Do NOT date people from work, unless you like having no job. As a man, anyways.

Right I normally don’t date from work but low key she really cane after me always coming to my area saying how cute or handsome I am or just giving me hugs randomly so if she didn’t come on to me I probably wouldn’t had even asked her out