"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So this forum exists?

ARrocket

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So this is mainly an experiment to see if this forum actually functions, but I'll give it a shot.

Yesterday I received my first booty call text (booty text?!?). Girl I met at a party a few weeks ago...because of some serious logistical issues, nothing happened, but there was definitely some sexual tension. Anyway, been texting a little bit since then, then out of the blue she asks me to come over for a really dumb reason. Unfortunately, I'm out of town for a few weeks. But when I get back I'll be sure to get on that :yes:

Any tips for a successful (obvious) booty call? I never seem to be able to put one together correctly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This definately does work, but it doesn't come up on the main page. Stickying this section on the main forum and HS forum might be a possibility?
 

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Yeah that's what I've been thinking, I'll start doing that now.

So I'm guessing ya'll just saw this because of what I posted in that thread about the field report section? It would be great if we could get this part of the forums up and running again! I'd definitely start posting more of my field reports...should be some more in the next few weeks :up:
 
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