"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So this chick is 25.

Livinlifehard

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well she is about to be 25 a Middle school teacher, looks cute (not a bomb shell but i am getting my game back). So i messaged her on this site, and then she gave me her myspace and says that she likes me and what i have to offer so far (looks, how my message was "your not a horn dog" boy is she mistaken lol, and what i do). so she seems normal, how long till i should email her back? and should i play games with this one, she seems respectful.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ObieJuan

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If she's interested she'll make it pretty easy for you...waiting a day or so helps sometimes when you can't tell the girl's interest level- but in this case it isn't such a big deal- just vibe with her, set something up and it's done.
 

Chemistry

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Yawn...

Quit with the e-mail BS... you've found this chick online, ok... get her somewhere in person now and start on the path to fvckin her... lets see how good your game is
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scorched

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yeah, ask her out, then she will give you her number

but you've still got to keep he challenged...
 

Scorched

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Ashley Chuckles said:
Yawn...

Quit with the e-mail BS... you've found this chick online, ok... get her somewhere in person now and start on the path to fvckin her... lets see how good your game is
That was a bit rude...
 
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